So a few things are bothering me right now and I have to get them off my chest.
I have 5 bridesmaids and I love them all dearly. Well I told them I just want them to wear black dresses to the wedding, because I wanted them to each pick something they are comfortable in. So the wedding is in 3 months and nobody has a dress yet. When should I start to worry about this??
I have gained weight and my dress wont zip all the way so I am trying super hard to work out but the weight is just not coming off like I had hoped. So I am super stressed about that.
I am still looking for an affordable place near downtown to have our rehearsal dinner for 30 people (on a budget)
I was planning on DIY my own centerpieces but a lot of people are telling me it is going to be too hard and to not do it and just pay for someone else to do it but we are on a budget and I just dont think we can afford to have a florist do our flowers.
And the real icing on the cake is that my mom is not being there for me at all. She is very jealous of my FI family and is taking it out on me. My mom is retired and does not have much money so I offered to buy her MOB dress for the wedding and she got all offended and said that I thought she was going to embarrass me. The only reason I offered is because I know she does not have money for it and she NEVER dresses up so I thought it would be nice to bond with her. My mom has complained about everything I am doing for the wedding from my dress to my bridesmaid gifts. I am so upset but really want her to be a part of my big day. My older brother says that she told him that she is not coming and he thinks I should not push the issue and if she doesnt come that it will be her loss... Just had to get this off my chest ...