My best friend (a bridesmaid) seems to want nothing to do with my wedding, or me for that matter. Cancelled our vacation and hasn't called for a month (we usually talk about every two weeks.) May or may not make it to town to try on/alter her dress by the suggested 4-6 week mark at the end of August. I've offered to ship it to her so she can get alterations close to where she lives, but she hasn't taken me up on that yet. Ever since we picked dresses (a dress she said she liked), she's done nothing but complain, and expects me to change decisions to fit what she wants ("But I can't find navy shoes, let's have nude shoes" - To bad, 3 out of 5 bridesmaids have their navy shoes so I'm sure there's a pair out there somewhere if you're willing to find them.) I have also told her where I've found navy shoes that she can purchase. And for a good price (Under $20.) I've tried to be accomodating because I know she has other things going on, but it hits a point when everyone else has things going on too and I've done everything in my power, and if it still isn't enough, she can decide not to be in the wedding.
I also found out a couple that I thought was absolutely perfect for each other is divorcing after 2 years of marriage. I know you never really know the insides of other people's relationships, but it doesn't make it any less of a shock.