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walk down the aisle...HELP!!!

So here is my dilemma I dont know what i should do about the situation...wether to have my biological father walk me or step father, or my mother or my son??
Scenario:
My biological father has not really put an effort to see me or call me or anything since him and my mother divorced when i was 5. I was always the one to take initiative to visit him.
My stepfather and i get along but we also had road bumps down the road, long story short.....i suffered abuse as a child.......
My mother well.......lets just say the further the better, well sometimes i guess she can be ok but although we have our ups and downs i love her ofcourse
My son....well hes four lol i dunno if this would look weird or i dunno its just a thought...my little man is soo sweet he calls me princess bc he says i look like one when i wear dresses, im almost as more excited to c his face in my dress than to also see the future hubbys face whenhe sees me lol

Re: walk down the aisle...HELP!!!

  • IMO with what you described I think I would walk down with my son.  GL with whatever you decide!
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  • I think you should choose your son too i think its something you sound like you would be VERY happy with and wont look back on and regret...
  • i vote for your son to walk you down the aisle too

    its about what you want you want on your wedding day
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  • I think that would be adorable to walk down the aisle with your son. It sounds like he is up for the job, too.

    If you don't want him, you could always walk alone or walk with your husband to be.
  • I aggree with what everyone else said...it would be so sweet to have your son walk with you down the isle.  I'm in the same boat you are I'm probably going to have my brother walk me down the isle...good luck! :)
  • Son. My friend just got married last month and her father doesnt approve of her Husband,...(there are reasons)... and didnt come to the wedding.. She had her 3 yr old walk her down the isle.  It was cute and fitting.
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  • I think you need to think about who matters to you.  Who has been there in good and bad and put you first when you needed it.  My friends have been through this and had their biological dad do it because everyone told them they would regret it and they regret having their biological dad walk them....
    I hope it works out.  I know once you make up your mind you have to have a conversation with everyone else
  •  I think your son should do it.... but if he is cranky that day (he is4) that it is common to walk down the isle by yourself just iin case.

    good luck
  • From reading your post, it sounds like you've already made up your mind!
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  • I think the the Little Prince should walk the Princess down the aisle :)
  • thanks you all for the kind input I think you girls are right I will never regret having my oldest  son walk me down the aisle. My mom also suggested that I have my fathers both walk me down the aisle together......my parents had a bitter divorce that i think that is not gonna fly with my biological father so I think instead of hurting anyones feelings I am gonna go with my son.
    No one can argue with me there, I mean who else to give me away to their father ? lol
    I am not even sure that my biological father will even show up......I cant be stood up at my own wedding!!!! Thanks again and I have a better feeling about this.
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