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wedding nightmares......

lulubella2011lulubella2011
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I'm having a lot of worries!!! And i'm starting to have night mares!!!! Is this normal? I guess a wedding is just really stressful to plan......

1.  I'm scared  I won't look "pretty" or "beautiful" on my wedding day.  I went through an ugly duckling phase growing up and was made fun of a lot- A LOT.  I just want to look FANTASTIC!  It's important to me to hire a great makeup and hair artist.

2.  Photos..... My future hubby is a photographer so he told me to let him worry about it.....His friend is going to shoot the "formal" wedding party posed pictures and his co-worker may be doing candids.... ok.....I'm just nervous.  I want beautiful pictures and I want to look my very best in them- that's really important to me coming from my background of horrible self esteem I suppose.  I'm scared they won't be all that I want them to be.....I know in the big picture this isn't the most important thing and a wedding and marriage is so so so much more.  But I do want a few fabulous reminders.  Am i being silly ?
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  • mari0225mari0225
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    edited December 2011
    I've felt the same way! And had nightmares,  with me it's "What if I gain weight and can't fit into my dress." I'm overweight and trying to lose weight but it's just not easy! I one dream that on the day of the wedding the dress is way too small and i just keep getting bigger like that girl on the Willy Wonka movie!

    Try not to worry, you're hubby to be thinks that you're beautiful no matter what :)
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  • MelissaAnne88MelissaAnne88 member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_georgia-atlanta_wedding-nightmares-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:58Discussion:3ab36638-ea5e-4f13-b69b-72ec0c791ae2Post:3a286134-7c79-4400-9fe5-97b9cce4abd7">Re: wedding nightmares......</a>:
    [QUOTE] Try not to worry, you're hubby to be thinks that you're beautiful no matter what :)
    Posted by mari0225[/QUOTE]
    Yep. :)
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  • My_MattMy_Matt member
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    edited December 2011
    If your photog knows what he is doing, he will be able to pose you where you will look amazing. I am sure you will look incredible :)
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  • chrissyinatlchrissyinatl member
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    edited December 2011
    OMG I had a wedding nightmare last night too.  Ugh, and it's 7 months away! 

    So much pressure and details for ONE DAY!
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  • haleightibbshaleightibbs member
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    edited December 2011
    Let me speak from personal experience to make sure you see what your fiance's photographer work looks like.

    My MOH's wedding she did something similiar.  The friend was someone we all knew who did incredible landscape/coastal pictures but he knew nothing of shooting a wedding and wasted so much time saying "What other shots do you want?"  Basically asking us to help set up the shots.

    In the end, the posed shots were few and far between and were just ok.  The candids were ok but he spent more time acting as a guest instead of a photographer and in the end her pictures weren't that good (or many) and all she's reminded me of while planning my wedding is that I'm getting a photographer that specializes in wedding photos.  After seeing hers, my dad is more than happy to pay for it.
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  • sweetheartgirleysweetheartgirley
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    edited December 2011
    I keep having the same thing! I dream that my dress doesn't fit, all of my DIY centerpieces fall apart, and then when I get down the asile it my terrible awful exboyfriend standing there instead of my fiance!! Its terrible, and I wake up gasping for air! I have friends that have assured me it is normal, so I am going with that.
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