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AW + nervousness

Erinkathleen84Erinkathleen84
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AW - I leave in exactly 2 months !!!!!!!!!! I cannot believe it is almost here..and I am SO ready for it to come already.

Nervousness - We did not get the opportunity to do a planning trip and I am so nervous about the place not meeting our expectations, guests not being happy, something major happening...the list goes on. Why am I getting this anxiety and stress about things going wrong ?? I seriously could not sleep last night. Is anyone else going through this ? I keep thinking about how nice it would be to elope ... and I do not want to feel this because we have a large group coming that are so excited ! I should really be happy that they want to be apart of our day right ??
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  • jtolyjtoly member
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    I think it's normal to be nervous and I'm sure everything will be great! Try to relax, no sleep is terrible! Drink some wine before bed! ; )
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  • venus909venus909
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    I hope it's all normal... I'm right there with you...  I have all the same worries (we didn't do a planning trip either)... 

    I'm sure everything will work out and turn out beautifully! ;)
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  • kimmykupcakeskimmykupcakes member
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    Take a deep breath and let it go. If any of that happens, you have no control over it. Stressing yourself out over it only hurts you.

    As I get closer to the wedding, I've become more clam. It's nice knowing that the wedding madness will be coming to an end and we will get some time to relax. I'm also really looking forward to our couple days with just the two of us before everyone arrives.
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  • BMcLeodTeamBMcLeodTeam member
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    Definitely normal to be nervous, I have seen so many friends go through that :)
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  • loramarie03loramarie03
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    What Kimmy said :) I also get nervous about it because we didn't do a planning trip but you know what? Most of the little stuff will only be noticed by you and not the rest of your guests. Your resort knows what they're doing. You've invested the time. Things will work out GREAT. Just relax and enjoy the moment because it'll be gone so quick! 
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  • murphanzomurphanzo
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    completely normal!  I was freaking out before we left and on the plane there.  H told me, you already paid, signed a contract, everyone's coming, there's nothing you can do about it if it doesn't live up to your expectations.  I needed tough love and it worked out.  

    Everything was great!
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  • Erinkathleen84Erinkathleen84
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    I so wish I had FI's brain sometimes. He is like..."everything will be perfect because we are getting married so no need to stress/worry!"
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  • TrudM75TrudM75 member
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    Erin, it sounds like your FI had the perfect answer for you!  Sounds like a great guy!

    I agree that the nervousness is probably normal - sounds like everyone goes though it to some extent!  But like Lora said -  even if something goes wrong, you are the only person that will ever know!  You and your guest are going to have a great time no matter what!
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