I'm completely confused about what to do right now.
My bridal shower is coming up in about a month. My FMIL offered to help host it, but because she is busy with work, she's not really able to take on any of the responsibilites. My mom/MOH are hosting it now. FMIL knows it will be held at my mom's house, but she is already discussing the shower with her friends and inviting them without anyone elses consent! My mom wanted a smaller shower, like 15 people, (which I told FMIL) and my FMIL is forcing all these guests on me. The worst part is that I DON'T EVEN KNOW THESE PEOPLE! I know I'm not supposed to have much of a say when it comes to my bridal shower, but I'm trying to be the mediator here because my FMIL is taking over without even communicating with my mom/MOH. I don't want her friends there, I think it's completely inappropriate, but I don't know how to politely ask her to uninvite them. HELP!!!!