I'm attempting to plan a bachelorette party for my cousins upcoming wedding. As her MOH I'm already dealing with all of the shower planning, and honestly do not feel like I should HAVE to give her a bachelorette party. She has ridiculous expectations for a bachelorette party. I've chatted with the other 6 BMs and am not really getting any help. Everyone has such a different budget for the evening ranging from $100 all the way to $500. Every time that I mention a different idea to my cousin she immediately shoots it down because it isn't exactly what she wants to do. Do I really have to do exactly what she wants, especially if everyone cannot afford? She's also being extremely rude to me and blaming everything on me because I think its too expensive. I've already shelled out almost $1000 between my dress, shoes, jewelery and her shower, but she isn't being considerate of the fact that all of her BMs don't have the same level of disposable income that she does. I don't know what to do. I want to just tell her she isn't getting a bachelorette party, but at the same time I don't want to start a huge fight. What do I do!?