broken engagements SUCK!.... please ladies if you please help with out being hurtful or sarcastic it would be amazing.... im just sick of talking to friends about this... in fact its only been 5 days.... such a long story to explain.... but how do you deal with this. we didnt have any money put into this yet thank god..... im just meaning the hurt, frustrayion when the man you wanted to marry decided to jus do his own thing and leave you with the mess.... uhh too much already, i just im heartbroken, i see the issues on both ends..... just looking for some postive feedback