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RSVP Question

Rebeccaw86Rebeccaw86
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I am working on making my invitations and since my parents are paying for the wedding I wrote them accordingly.  I do not live with my parents though, so I would like the RSVP's to be sent to me (since my mom is very unorganized). Is it ok to do this or should they be sent to my parents since they are paying for it?
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    Kaytee241Kaytee241 member
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    edited December 2011
    They should go to whomever is hosting, ie running the wedding. Just because your parents are paying, doesn't mean they're hosting. I understand where you're coming from: we paid for most of our wedding, with some help from my parents, but we wanted to make our parents feel included, so wrote the invitations accordingly. I had the RSVPs sent to me, though, because I was doing head counts, dealing with the non-responders, etc.
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    WishingBride2010WishingBride2010
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    edited December 2011
    My father is paying for most of the wedding but I'm having our RSVPs sent to my house since I will be the one doing the seating charts, escort cards, etc.  I don't think it matters where you have the RSVPs sent to!  It's whatever works best for you - THE BRIDE!!!!  :)
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    image 165 Invited
    image 105 Are attending one amazing party!
    image33 Are missing out!
    image 27 Haven't sent back their responses yet
    RSVP Date: October 23
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