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2014...UUGGHH **VENT**

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OK i know this is too soon to start getting frustrated but my wedding was supposed to be in 8/2013 but we pushed it back until 8/2014...needless to say i was already in full plan mood but now im wondering should i just take a major break and start this journey again in 2013..IM READY TO GET TO PLANNING AND THIS IS TAKING TOO DARN LONG LOL

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  • MrsHoward2BeMrsHoward2Be member
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    Take a break and do a little at a time. 
    What else do you have left to do? Any DIY projects?

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    I'm sorry (hugs)
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  • msbdumasmsbdumas member
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    I know what you mean...we was supposed to be getting married 7/7/12 then in the midst of planning FI before xmas 2011 said we should push it back to 2013. So I took a major break...I had surgery in Feb and start thinking about a new date like in april of this year. And now that 7/7 is this saturday I'm so glad we did cause I don't think I've wouldve been ready !!! Sorry I hijacked....this took me back a bit lol So I say yes take a major break and just enjoy it, revise somethings and save the extra money for something u might not of been able to get ! For ex: at first we wouldn't of been able to get a videographer but because we waited now we got one !!! It will all work out in the end !!!!
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  • MissusD1116MissusD1116 member
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    I would agree to take a break...just get all your ducks in line and gives you extra time to save!!!
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  • M1ssJM1ssJ member
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    hugs hun! It's not as bad as it seems. We pushed ours back like twice and it still snuck up on me! Look at dresses! Pick a date! Secure a venue!
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  • tirathemrstirathemrs member
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    Thanks Ladies...i truly appreciate the love...so far i havent booked anyone but i do plan on doing so by the end of this year just to really secure the date although im sure it isnt too many women booking for 2014 but hey you never knw (look at me lol) however ive already talked to the venue and since i was going to do it in 2013 i already have a clue of the price and i also talked to the photgrapher/videographer and the event coordinator/florist...so i said all of that to say i knw what im gonna do i just got to do it...but its really hard when all i think about is the wedding...lol.....OK LADIES I WILL TRY MY BEST TO TAKE A BREAK..<NO GUARANTEES LOL>

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  • M1ssJM1ssJ member
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    misstira I looked  and booked in late 2010 for our December 2012 wedding I was able to get a summer special. My point is although you're early you can lock in current rates and see if some of your favorite venues have specials going on
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/cultural-wedding-boards_african-american-weddings_2014uugghh-vent?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Cultural%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:400Discussion:16b123b2-f36f-41ba-a939-565700848a2fPost:ddbd61b3-3b78-4978-b24b-f60780f6cce1">Re: 2014...UUGGHH **VENT**</a>:
    [QUOTE]misstira I looked  and booked in late 2010 for our December 2012 wedding I was able to get a summer special. My point is although you're early you can lock in current rates and see if some of your favorite venues have specials going on
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    <div>You are right about that cuz id hate for the price to go up because the venue is getting really popular...hmmm good idea..i may want to book them this year...I SWEAR YOU LADIES ON AAW ROCK...THANKS</div>

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  • staten2012staten2012
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    I agree with the others....and have to say as a bride who had to push her wedding back also first...it is NO fun. I agree and it feels like postponing the inevitable, which for someone like me (who is VERY VERY VERYYYYY SHORT on patience, like that virture is nowhere in the building) that only adds to the frustration.

    Buttt...

    like the others have said I found that pushing it back is actually better than I believed it would be. I thought for a fact I was going to be "bored'...but that's not the case at all! I'm able to take more time, be more thorough. For my invites I can "dress them up" now and take my time addressing them and just doing the little "extras" I wouldn't have been able to do. So its bittersweet and the best advice I can give is just to enjoy every minute of it. You are STILL engaged and a Bride-To-Be so...that's good times right! :)
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