June 2012 Weddings

Invite question

My MOH sister thinks her child's father is coming to the wedding. I never planned on inviting him because I barely know his name and I never had a conversation with him. I'm already inviting my MOH child's father and they are not even together anymore(another story). I've told my MOH 2 or 3 times that I cannot add him because we are already over our limit of people to invite. I just feel its my wedding and why do I have to invite her baby's dad.

So do I have to invite him to my wedding?

Re: Invite question

  • If they are together, yes. If not, then no. Couples should always be invited together.
  • Well they don't live together. 

    Thank you
  • Are they in a relationship even though they don't live together?
    If so, then you need to invite the significant other.
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  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_june-2012-weddings_invite-question-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:3ae4d68d-f10a-4dec-8810-da13c14a7b86Discussion:5e6d38a3-712c-4daa-8629-4bc2c9f54885Post:90847c94-612a-4097-a722-b9149a882c20">Re: Invite question</a>:
    [QUOTE]Are they in a relationship even though they don't live together? If so, then you need to invite the significant other.
    Posted by KrisKenny[/QUOTE]

    <div>They are in a relationship now but I just don't care for the guy and why should I have pay for a free loader. I know that's mean but if I invite him then I would have to uninvite one of my family members. We are on strict budget now because I lost my job and now working part time. I guess I'm going to have to work something out. </div>
  • Sorry, you do have to invite him. And he's not her child's father, he's her boyfriend/partner, whatever name she gives him. 

    One of my mother's friend's husband is a cheating bastard whom I've met exactly one time in my life. Do I really want to invite a man I barely know who cheats on his wife to my wedding? Nope. But he's invited anyway.

    Also, you can't "uninvite" someone who has received an STD/invitation.
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  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_june-2012-weddings_invite-question-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:3ae4d68d-f10a-4dec-8810-da13c14a7b86Discussion:5e6d38a3-712c-4daa-8629-4bc2c9f54885Post:1c6888cd-3c0b-44ac-9f21-fd0c3b07f209">Re: Invite question</a>:
    [QUOTE]Sorry, you do have to invite him. And he's not her child's father, he's her boyfriend/partner, whatever name she gives him.  One of my mother's friend's husband is a cheating bastard whom I've met exactly one time in my life. Do I really want to invite a man I barely know who cheats on his wife to my wedding? Nope. But he's invited anyway. Also, you can't "uninvite" someone who has received an STD/invitation.
    Posted by daria24[/QUOTE]

    <div>I sure do hate that, I think its so unfair because they create so much drama everywhere they go, he is extremely jealous, he thinks every man wants her. And that's simply not the case. I don't know how I'm going to make it happen because paying for an extra person is soooo not in the budget right now. I will be doing a lot praying. </div>
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