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Parents renewing vows

JiminLKJiminLK
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Hi, everyone,
I used this website a lot when I got married in 2004 so I thought I'd log back on to get some ideas, help.

My parents who have been married for over 40 years want to renew their vows next year.  I, being the oldest kid, will probably have to do a big hunk of the planning for them.  No problem, glad to do it, etc.  A lot of the logistics is pretty simple and straightforward. 

My parents only had a civil ceremony back in the day and now, want a "real" wedding, but what is appropriate, and what is just ridiculous, you know?   They say they want something simple, but I know that my mom wants to feel like it's "her day" like all brides. 

My question is, what kind of dress do you think is appropriate for a bride who is 70 years old?  And, where can I find it.  I'd like your opinion and help in locating something.  If you could include a link to the dress, I'd appreciate it.  BTW, my mom is 70, but looks 50-ish.  She's petite, but in decent shape, not overweight or anything.

Thanks in advance.
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Re: Parents renewing vows

  • MikesAngieMikesAngie member
    1000 Comments Third Anniversary Name Dropper 5 Love Its
    edited December 2011
    Since you're in the LA area you could try Nordstorms they have a large selection of wedding gowns, bridesmaids gowns and MOB/MOG gowns that are noi over priced and age appropriate.  Your mom could opt for a gown in white or ivory as well and do a birdcage veil if she wants.

    Congatulations to your parents for their 40 years together!

    HTH
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  • Sue-n-KevinSue-n-Kevin member
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    edited December 2011

    Congrats on your parent's 40th, and congrats to them for raising such a great daughter!

    I did parties for my ex's parent's 40th, plus my parent's 25th, 50th, so I can tell you what I did.

    - Made the "bride" a small headband with short veil to wear. They don't have to wear it the entire time, but it's cute for pics
    - made silk flower tiny bouquets that they could hold, plus a bout for the "groom"
    - got my parents silver goblets and had their names and "50th" anniversary engraved on them, with their original wedding date
    - used my mom's original veil (which she still has) under the wedding cake as a sort of "cloud"
    -had a white 2 tiered cake done, and found bride & groom cake topper to fit the occasion (silver dress for 25th, red dress for 40th (ruby anniversary), gold dress for their 50th.)
    -framed their original invitation
    -put some of their framed wedding pics around the gift table
    -invited their best man from the wedding.......maid of honor had passed away

    Made sachet packets in white lace bags for the invited guests with small gold bell attached for their 50th "favors".

    Had the parties catered.

    As for a dress for your Mom, check any of the major department stores such as Nordstroms (above), Macy's, JC Penney, Dillard's, Lord & Taylor online. If you/she knows the right size, it's easier to find petite clothing online than in the stores. I've been very impressed lately with Penney's selection online. If you live near any outlets (Saks, Nordstrom's, etc), check those also.


    Good luck. I'm sure they will appreciate everything you do!

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  • Lisa50Lisa50 member
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    edited December 2011
    Congratulations to your parents!!  My parents celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary last year.  It is SO nice when couples' relationships stand the test of time. 

    First, the dress.  I, too, recommend Nordstrom.  I bought my dress there, in the Special Occasion department.  There might be some small boutiques near your mother's home might have a hidden gem or two.  Once you put away the word "bridal," a whole new world opens up.

    Next, the party.  My cousins hosted a 50th wedding anniversary party for my aunt and uncle a couple of years ago.  It was very nice, a sit-down dinner with about 100 guests in attendance.  My uncle was in a tux, my aunt wore a beautiful formal occasion dress.  The evening began with an open bar cocktail hour, followed by the vow renewal and then dinner.  There were a couple of songs as part of the ceremony. 

    It was quite lovely and, actually, inspired some of the elements of FI's and my ceremony and wedding.
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