I'm having a bit of dilemma on who to give me away on my wedding day. My dad was rarely in my life growing up. It almost seems like when "he doesn't get his way" I don't see him for a months. It always been that way. My uncle (mom's brother) been there and though we have differences, aside from my mom, he's been that father figure. Now my dad sort of been in my life (I'm 23 now) but now since I am getting married he's been pretty harsh to my fiance and starting the whole "won't see him for months" thing again. I been meaning to ask my Uncle to be the one to give me away instead but there's still that little girl inside me saying what if he gets hurt by my decision. I have no idea what to do.
Who to choose? Dad or Uncle