This isn't exactly an etiquette question but you ladies always seem to know what's up so I thought I'd post it here as well...
have 4 people in my bridal party, my MOH, 2 BMs and a brides"man" (not sure what else to call him!) Another good friend of mine is doing a reading.
I'm trying to figure out what gifts to get for everyone. I found a cool necklace I really love that is made with your birth month flower that I would like to get for the gals - not to wear at the wedding, but just because I think they are cool. Obviously I wouldn't get it for the male, I have something else picked out for him. So it would be for the MOH and 1 of the bridesmaids (one hates necklaces, so she'll get something else) But I would also like to get a gift for the girl that is doing the reading, and was thinking of getting her the same necklace, just because I like it so much. Will it be odd for her to get the same gift as the technical "wedding party?" Not that my BMs are petty, just that - will it make it seem less special somehow if I give the "reader" the same gift as well? Thanks ladies!