Is there a rule the cocktail hour must be before the ceremony? The sun goes down at 6:40pm on our wedding day and we would like to have a candlelight ceremony and reception. Our venue is a boathouse with floor to celing windows and we are getting married outside by the water, but there is only one large room. Is it a bad idea to have the cocktail hour in the venue, everyone come outside for the ceremony and at that time having it transformed into the reception. We are having 75 guest and it will be a sit down dinner, but if we don't do it this way I see no way in having a cocktail hour, which I'd like to do
Maybe like this
5:00pm guest arrive/cocktail hour begins
6:30pm ceremony begins
7:10pm reception begins
7:30pm dinner served
I just would like more mingling time since a sit down dinner is hard to mingle and I am trying to make the timing work to have a sunset ceremony without asking people to arrive at 6:30pm which I think it a little late to start
** I don't believe that old cliche that good things come to those who wait. I think good things come to those who want something so bad they can't sit still **