Hello! Here is the dilema. I really was not interested in having a bridal shower but due to some close family and my bridesmaids thoughts they convinced me it would be ok. My FI aunt offered to host a long time ago, so I agreed. Now we are trying to plan the shower and I am more stressed about it than the wedding! They picked a Sunday afternoon and I have specified a number of times for it to not go past 3 for my out of town guests (i.e. my side of the family) so the host chose 3-5. Again i said to please change the time to not go past 3. So she says how about 2-4? And she wants to send out the invitations this week and she has not asked me anything besides the time.. So this makes me think she won't take any of my ideas or anything into consideration. I am feeling extremely aggrivated by this - to the point where i just want to cancel the entire thing. Any advice??