so, me and my new fiance have been engaged for almost two weeks. i wasnt expecting the proposal at all, especially since the whole time we have been together he has always said to me "marriage is just paper work, and it causes more stress in relationships".
my birthday was may 9th, and i turned 20. that saturday after my birthday, he took me to Louisville to celebrate my birthday because there is waaay more to do there than there is here. we stayed at this big fancy hotel, and when it got later on in the evening he told me i needed to get ready (i had no idea of anything happening that day), well we are standing outside waiting on our "cab" and here comes this horse drawn carriage ), we take a carriage tour around the town, and then our carrage driver drops us off at where we were going to eat which was the 'old spaghetti factory' we had a more private booth that was dark except with one little lamp, it was very romantic. then after that we walk to this comedy bar, and watched greg owens. and after all that, we went back to the hotel, he took me outside to 'play in the fountian' and in the center of the fountain was a place where you could stand and there was water shooting up, and a waterfall behind you and he proposed right there.
so, im engaged...now what?
when do i start planning?
he thinks its way too soon.
advice? please?