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Thank you for group gift?

I think I've seen before that one thank you to the whole group is okay.  My co-workers gave me a wedding gift today and I want to make sure I do the right thing. 

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  • My only concern would be that everyone sees the thank you. If you think everyone would see it I think it would be okay. 
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    [QUOTE]I think I've seen before that one thank you to the whole group is okay.  My co-workers gave me a wedding gift today and I want to make sure I do the right thing. 
    Posted by aukelly[/QUOTE]

    <div>
    </div><div>Well, they're all co-workers, so they can leave your thank you note in a common area, like the lunch room...  I would write each one a little something, but thats just me.</div>
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  • I think one would be fine as long as you could ensure they'd all see it. I don't know if separate cards are justified. If you want to send personal remarks to each person, maybe you can email them in addition to the group thank you card?
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    [QUOTE]I think I've seen before that one thank you to the whole group is okay.  My co-workers gave me a wedding gift today and I want to make sure I do the right thing. 
    Posted by aukelly[/QUOTE]

    A girl we work with got married last month, we threw her a party, she sent a group thank you email.
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Thank you for group gift? : A girl we work with got married last month, we threw her a party, she sent a group thank you email.
    Posted by Nicky47846[/QUOTE]

    <div>I thought about sending an email too but I also want to do a card.  Maybe I will do both.  We all sit in the same area some I'm sure they would all see the card.</div>
  • I think a card posted in a common area is good! 
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    [QUOTE]I think a card posted in a common area is good! 
    Posted by fsujen18[/QUOTE]

    This! I agree, that sounds like a great idea :)
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  • sld0618sld0618 member
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    I think a group card and an email to look at the group card is perfect.  That way, it ensures everyone knows it's there.

  • I got a group gift for my baby shower and I did individual thank you cards.  The reason was because I felt that each person took the time and spent money on me and I felt that the very least I could do was spend 30 seconds to write a personal note to each of them.  Just because they all decided to pool their money and get a larger gift doesn't mean that they, as gift-givers, were any less important than any of the other people who gave me a gift.  So why would those who gave individual gifts get a thank you card but the group wouldn't, KWIM?  But my family is HUGE on writing thank you notes and that's just how I grew up.  Everyone gets a hand written note for everything. 

    I know work dynamics are different, though.  What have others done in your position before?  Do they usually do a group thank you? 

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    [QUOTE]I think a group card and an email to look at the group card is perfect.  That way, it ensures everyone knows it's there.
    Posted by sld0618[/QUOTE]

    I agree with this. But I also have to agree with Lisa. It would mean a lot to me personally to get an individual thank you card after a group gift. It just means that you appreciate them and took the time for each. Either way you can't go wrong with one way or the other.

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  • I got a gift today from my coworkers and I'm going to do individual thank yous.
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