Hi all, I've pretty much narrowed my choices down to two very differnt venues. One is a downtown hotel where they were very clear with me about how much I'll pay for dinner and open bar and exactly what's included. The other place I'm considering is the Commander's Mansion in Watertown, where you pay a site fee and then choose your caterer and other vendors. I'm just having a little trouble comparing costs because everything is still so up in the air if I book the Commander's Mansion.
Has anyone had a wedding there that could give me a rough estimate? We're looking at 180-200 people, using the tent in August. I know the caterer is responsible for extra tables, chairs, linens, etc., so I'm wondering how much of an impact all of that makes on the price per person. I feel like there'd be more room for negotiation at the Commander's Mansion, but I'm also not sure if I'd come up again a ton of unforeseen costs.
Any advice?