I'm experiencing a pretty strong bout of cold feet. It hit me a few weeks ago and I can't seem to shake it. Here's my situation:
- FI and I know each other and get along REALLY well
- We've lived together for 4 years, been together for roughly 5 years
- We have the many common interests & values
- Both of us want to have kids in the next year or two
Why is it that I feel like everything is as it should be (GREAT guy, great apartment, great families, good jobs, etc) and yet I feel like something is missing? What that 'something' is is beyond me. Before I met him I had a bit of a fear of committment. 9 months after he and I met, we moved in together...so maybe we rushed into that a bit. Am I just sabotoging myself?
The wedding is set for Sept 2013. There's SO much to plan so I feel like if I take a 'break' from planning I'll be WAY behind.
How have you dealt with cold feet? Or how have you 'snapped' out of it? Help me ladies :-)