I am having a Vietnamese tea ceremony on Saturday, August 14, 2010, one year before the actual wedding. We do have 3 professional vendors, a MUA, a photographer and a videographer, but the rest is DIY and will take place in my home. What time would you recommend that it take place? We're thinking of serving dinner. And we are not a superstitious family. Would you ladies recommend 2, 3, 4, or 5ish? I'm having a hard time choosing!