After an incrediably long talk this evening, FI and I have decided to wait a another year to get married. This will put us in the 2014 area.
FI seriously needs a new vehicle and mine has had too many issues lately and just isn't that reliable anymore so I need a new one as well. I'm not a huge fan of having a butt load of bills to pay when we are first starting out on our own. Both of FI's parents aren't in good health so leaving them soon isn't an option. They need someone to care for them right now.
I'm actually not sad about this. I was overly stressed about the wedding and then having a house payment plus car payment stressed me out even more. So to X the wedding of the list for the time being excites me.
I wish each and every one of you ladies the best and hope you have wonderful weddings.
*I'm posting this on the FB page as well*
As an Admin on the FB page, I'm making sssdee my replacement. If she doesn't accept it you all can work it out amongst yourselves.
