I've never been to a wedding that wasn't officiated by a pastor, priest, etc. However, we are not religious and opted to have a JOP marry us.
Can anyone provide some insight on a non-religious ceremony? I just want to know what to expect. Would a JOP perform a sermon like a pastor would? Or would he just get to the point and have us recite our vows? Are we supposed to give him direction or should we expect him to just come up with something himself?
We're not having any readings and we're not writing our own vows. We just want to keep it simple.