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I feel like a chump hanging out here

BonzerBonzer
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I just wanted to send my condolences, but I honestly can't hang out here.
If I was a real friend I would have never left, I would have known she was sick, I would of come and said hello while she was alive.
I feel awful. I feel like an idiot. But mostly I feel like a fool to hang out here because I feel like I didn't end things well with her and I really wish somehow that if we could all get cyber memos that she passed, we could have all gotten cyber memos that she was sick, and come and at least wished her well.
This sucks and I was up most of the night last night seriously bothered by the news.


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  • zsazsa-stlzsazsa-stl member
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    edited December 2011
    I'm pretty sure Cinn/WW wouldn't have appreciated people only showing up because she was sick.  She had a fair amount of that happen IRL and wasn't willing to play that game.

    I don't remember what the pop-off was about.  I was only a lurker back then.  But WW has moved on (for realz) and you've paid your respects. You are welcome to hang out.
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  • BonzerBonzer
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    edited December 2011
    You're right, she would not have wanted attention for being sick.
    I guess I'm just irrationally angry or upset or I dont 'even know what , shocked? I don't know, I kind of can't place it.
    I had no clue she was ill, so to hear she died is mind blowing, no time to mentally prepare for the news I guess.
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  • kmrvsadekmrvsade
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    edited December 2011
    It hit me like a ton of bricks, too, Bonz.  I can't shake it.

    And you know she'd have verbally whooped you had you tried to come here full of sorries and get wells and such!
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  • ReturnOfKuusReturnOfKuus member
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    edited December 2011
    It sounds like while you may not have liked her much, you did respect her.  I'm sure she knew that; it was always pretty clear IMO.

    Welcome back.  I've always liked you and would be happy if you stayed.
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  • BonzerBonzer
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    edited December 2011
    quite the opposite Kuus. She was a great person, we just always ended up sparring for some reason. We could talk a mean rope about americas next top model though, that's for sure.
    We just ended on a crap note, I didn't dislike her, I just didn't think things would end and she'd die. I just figured I don't know. what did I figure?
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  • L_WoodsL_Woods member
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    edited December 2011
    Bonz, you should stay. I think Cinn/Ww would have liked that she brought a little flavor back to the board because you're right, there was sparring but it was respectful (most of the time).

    Kmr, you stay too please! And you too Bucker, and DPRhea, and Frankie, and Wan, and Ennui and Pochie, and Corny and all the rest of you too!
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