I am so lost as to what to do for hair & jewelry. If you're bored and want to give me some input I'd appreciate it

Here's the dress (on model):
http://www.morilee.com/bridals/blu/4601and on me--when I bought it (it still hasn't come in yet so I don't have any pictures where it actually fits me)

There is a bit of "bling" on the top at the neckline and on the side/back

Here are my thoughts. For my hair I want something "up" but low on my head. Or to the side. If that makes sense. The ceremony is outside and I don't want it blowing all over. I am unsure of a veil. I know it would mean a lot to my grandma but I don't personally care if I wear one or not. If I did a veil I wouldn't want it over my face when I come down the aisle or anything. I kind of like birdcage veils but I don't know if that would look good with my dress :-/
I would like some kind of hair accessory. I like headbands, hair flowers and hairclips (individually..I wouldn't do all of them!) but I am struggling to find something that I love and I guess with the uncertainity of the veil I don't know which direction to go in. I like crystals and/or pearls. This is the thing I've liked the most so far that I've found but it's too expensive. I do have very dark hair so whatever I put in it will probably "pop" a lot.

I do want to wear earrings. I don't think I want to wear a necklace. FI's only request is that I got a strapless dress so he can see my collarbones (apparently I have nice collarbones) so I don't want to distract from that lol. Should I do fancier earrings then?
I'm so confused. Any thoughts or suggestions would be appreciated. If you made it this far, bless you.