Ok. So here's the scoop. My fianc told me today he wants his best man to be a female. I understand I should be compliant with his request, but I am having a very hard time with it. I am not saying I'm picky, but here are my concerns.
I don't want a women planning his
bachelor party or even being there. She can be involved in all my parties, but
ultimately not really with him at all.
Those are thing him and his guy friends should do together.
Next, she would have to get ready with
us. All my ladies are getting hair and
makeup done. She won't be the only
one without it, meaning she would not spend anytime with him to even be his best man. She would not wear a tux it's a straight female, I'm not letting her and would wear the same dress as all the girls.
To end, I guess I'm a little jealous that he would want another women so bad to stand next to him. Shouldn't the only female he be thinking about on our wedding day is me? Plus pictures and everything else. I'd just rather her be a bridesmaid and give a speech. Hell, I don't care if she sits next to him at the head table even. It's just the point that I don't like it. Am I totally wrong? Please help!!