Is anyone...

Re: Is anyone...

• CAB1217

  

  February 2012

  In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_military-brides_is-anyone?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:13Discussion:89ba3706-b9d9-4e33-9b21-dee060f05daePost:cc4e4f4c-d3e6-49f0-92de-58dcf94a6a7c">Re: Is anyone...</a>:
  [QUOTE]That is a good response...I will need to keep that in mind.  Just a little vent here like my for sure details are not out on facebook or pinterest but it is annoying because she is following me on there and pasting everything I like to her stuff...just stressful trying to mind my own business and she keeps trying to sneek in
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  Yeah, my cousin did the same. Just know that her wedding and your wedding will not be wedding twins no matter WHAT she tries to copy from you. Remember, she's trying to copy YOU, which says you're the one with the good ideas, so she can't possibly get in your head and do it the way you are without actually, you know, getting in your head.  Don't even worry about it. Just be the better bride, the cool, relaxed bride. The end result will be something YOU enjoyed while she will probably be complaining about everything not being perfect on "her special day".

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• JLAyen8861

  

  February 2012

  Thanks you all.  You ladies rock

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• calindi member

  

  February 2012

  My friend does that - she got married last year and has offered her opinions on what I should and shouldn't do very loudly.  I just stopped talking weddings with her, would always change the subject, and wouldn't give her any information about my wedding - a vague, "Oh, I don't know yet.  We have so much time to figure it out."  Or "My Mom's taking care of that, I really don't care."   It deflates the conversation, and at least prevents copying or competition, even if they continue offering their opinions on everything!
  
  I have another friend who had the most amazing wedding, and she obviously put a LOT of work and thought into it, but throughout the planning process she was very closed-lipped and didn't say much.  That way it was a great surprise for everyone, and she was like the anti-bridezilla since it seemed so effortless for her (even though it clearly was not).

  
  
  
  
  
  

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