July 2012 Weddings

No longer a July bride :(

Our date was set for July 21 and with our baby due only 2 months after, I have really lost all oomph I had over the whole thing. I don't even care about the wedding anymore and it really sucks because I really want to care about my wedding. We are on a tight budget to begin with, but now things are tighter because there's really no jobs I can get in town, so DF is doing overtime, plus he doesn't want me to work anyway. I still have to finish paying for the photographer, the church, my alterations, and food. A few other random things, but they are grab as you go things. Also, right now I'm on Medical Assistance since we're not married, and switching to his insurance after we are married will be complicated since pregnancy is a pre-existing condition. We are thinking about mid-November for the wedding so there's enough time between baby's birth and the wedding. I'm a little down because I am looking forward to being married, but also I'm thrilled that I don't have to worry about one more thing right now. I just have to get ahold of our photographer, church, and DJ to see what days they have available.

Just wanted to thank all you ladies for being so amazing and good luck with all your weddings and futures! I'll miss you!
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Re: No longer a July bride :(

  • I could not imagine the stress of wedding planning while pregnant, so I think you're making the right decision! Good luck with everything ( :
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  • Hopefully everything works out well for you guys. Congratulations on the baby by the way!
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  • Good luck with everything, it sounds like a smart, though bittersweet, decision.  I hope it all works out even better than you imagined.
  • Good luck with everything.  It sounds like the right thing to do, I hope everything works out for you.

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    It will work out for the best, just wait and see! Best wishes!
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  • :o) Stick around and post with us anyway when you get time
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  • Sorry to hear that your so stressed but congratulations on your new baby. I totally understand why this would stress you out, but it sounds like a good idea and November really isn't that far away :)I wish you good luck and hope that your vendors work with you!
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  • Best of luck! Hope you come back and PIP a baby picture :)
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  • Aww!!! I'm still so happy for you!!  <3 Good luck with everything!! Make sure to stop by with pics of the baby if you'd like!  I'm sure a few of us will still be around after the weddings
  • I was wondering how you were doing! Thanks for the update and best of luck with the baby and future wedding plans!
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  • I wish you all the best with your new little one. Everything will all work out!
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  • That's a good plan. In the end, you guys will be married!! Please stay around and share your pregnancy & PIP your baby!!

    Do you know what you're having??
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  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_july-2012-weddings_no-longer-a-july-bride?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding Club BoardsForum:066005ef-215f-48b1-8655-328b41e07c52Discussion:37f97d11-1733-4583-8644-3eb3ed69415aPost:88b2cf69-f9bd-4b37-8838-d9d7e7fd9323">Re: No longer a July bride :(</a>:
    [QUOTE]That's a good plan. In the end, you guys will be married!! Please stay around and share your pregnancy & PIP your baby!! Do you know what you're having??
    Posted by mekiakoo[/QUOTE]

    We went today to find out what we're having and the baby would not cooperate. Hoping we can try again soon! Here's a picture of my little squirrel from today :)

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