Ok, so our dream location had a cancellation and we were able to get it booked for July 2nd. The problem being one of the bridesmaids will be out of state ALL summer. I asked if there was any way she could fly back for 1 weekend and she responded with "nope". Not even trying! Is is selfish of me to want to have the wedding without her? Should i ask her to help me with details before she leaves? Please help me figure this out!