Our plan together was to move to FL after we were married. My family is down there and since we started dating I always told him this was my plan (to get back to FL at some point, living in Baltimore was to be a temporary thing which has now lasted 4 years!). My biggest reason was once we started a family ourselves, which will still be a few years off. We were going to start looking for jobs AFTER the wedding and said that we would take our time and wait for a great job for both of us that would be better then what we have now. One of my vendors that I work closely with now is located in Clearwater. I was on their website the other day for work and just decided to check out their job boards. There was a great job that fit me and looks really exciting. My rep that I work with their pushed my resume through and I got a call back for a phone interview!
I know I am jumping the gun a little, but fiancé and I were talking about it last night. 1) If I were to be offered the job 2) Money has to be more then what I am making already , this would probably require me to move within a month which would be before our wedding date on 10-3-10. Fiancé said that if this is an amazing opportunity for me then I must take it and we will figure it out. He said he would immediately start looking for jobs, but just can’t leave his job with the hopes of finding something eventually. I can deal with seeing each other on the weekends for a month or two BEFORE we are married. BUT, I don’t want come back from our wedding and honeymoon then go live in different states with a long distance marriage!! I understand he can’t leave his job for nothing, he makes good money and we have a lot of bills to pay off right now, especially with the wedding.
This is turning my stomach into knots right now!! I know I am thinking too far ahead and should just see what happens… but I can’t stop thinking about it! I either turn down a great opportunity that is in the realms of a dream job for me. Or, I take it and cross my fingers that my husband finds something quickly to meet me there to begin our new lives together. What would you do??
