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Hi... I'm pretty new, and apparently a judgmental hag...

I've been a lurker for a while, posted a little bit, but not often.

I'm Mandi, 29, soon to be engaged to the love of my life. This will be a second wedding for both of us. We each have 1 child from our previous marriages, boys, and have 2 furbabies and some fish.
So, hi... can I play, too? I swear I'm not judgmental, though I can't say for sure that I'm not a hag... Undecided
Praying for a miracle!

Re: Hi... I'm pretty new, and apparently a judgmental hag...

  • You're the only one who seems to think I'm judgmental... 
    The growing number of those who relate to what I was saying, and have "taken my side" so to speak, would speak to the fact that I'm not judgmental, just a concerned sister. 
    Personally, I think you need a hug, with all your finger pointing and nonsense.
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  • And, on a side note, the commenter that said "that comment was unnecessary" (or however it was worded) was referring to YOUR comment being unnecessary, not mine. egads
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  • Oh goody! Some things in life never do change. Stopped in after 2 years to see if things are still the same, apparently so and theknot/nest seems in good snarky hands
  • edited October 2012
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_hi-im-pretty-new-and-apparently-a-judgmental-hag?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:5d58f894-1028-4fdc-8f53-1ea5162e6787Post:82c0cbf7-791b-45bc-82b3-c75c9b43d61f">Re: Hi... I'm pretty new, and apparently a judgmental hag...</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Hi... I'm pretty new, and apparently a judgmental hag... : No that commenter was referring to her own question being unnecessary about why you use the word "egads" so much.
    Posted by Edie Bee[/QUOTE]



    Yup. This is exactly. I was saying my own comment wasn't necessary. JCB is right, Mandi. You sound judgmental (and way, way, WAY overinvoloved in your FSIL's life) in the other thread.

    Also, FYI, shenanigans like running to one board to bitchily vague knot about your experiences on another board are petty, immature, and ridiculous.
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  • i love the word shenanigans.
  • Mandi I get it, u just want the day to be good for ur brother to.
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  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_hi-im-pretty-new-and-apparently-a-judgmental-hag?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:5d58f894-1028-4fdc-8f53-1ea5162e6787Post:78c8fffa-a030-46c9-9320-34622b28e473">Re: Hi... I'm pretty new, and apparently a judgmental hag...</a>:
    [QUOTE]Mandi I get it, u just want the day to be good for ur brother to.
    Posted by Shlby81[/QUOTE]

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  • afeliz79afeliz79 member
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    edited October 2012
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_hi-im-pretty-new-and-apparently-a-judgmental-hag?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:5d58f894-1028-4fdc-8f53-1ea5162e6787Post:57e8fcf4-a9fe-42bb-86e9-353b4c86a086">Re: Hi... I'm pretty new, and apparently a judgmental hag...</a>:
    [QUOTE]You're the only one who seems to think I'm judgmental...  The growing number of those who relate to what I was saying, and have "taken my side" so to speak, would speak to the fact that I'm not judgmental, just a concerned sister.  Personally, I think you need a hug, with all your finger pointing and nonsense.
    Posted by mandi195[/QUOTE]



    You sound like a jerk.
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  • meh, maybe I am a jerk. But, I'm kinda ok with that. However, I'm really not judgmental, rude, or trying to make waves. If I seemed judgmental or bitchy or overinvolved in my pervious post on E, my apologies; wasn't my intention. Was just a little shocked in the moment. Next time I'll bite my tongue and cool my jets before I post. 
    Thanks for the reality check from all of you, you're probably right; I was a little (see: a lot) upset over something that was, in reality, NOT my problem, and hardly my business. Apologies to all I may have offended. 

    Praying for a miracle!
  • I don't think your intro was necessary. Why couldn't you stick with the I'm new here? I agree with the PP who said you shouldn't go from board to board posting the drama you had. This makes me think you wanted to start drama on here. I don't know much about the SB page but I can take the hint based on the title. I feel like you thought the women you offended would be on this board and you could take it up on her. I read your OP and commented. I feel like everyone else. LET IT GO. It's not your wedding and whatever happens happens. It's on her, not you. 
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  • DaveandRoxyDaveandRoxy member
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    edited October 2012
    I don't think you're judgemental or a hag. Problem is you were on the wrong board. I know it's pretty ironic but the Etiquette board harbors the rudest bunch here that pick on "judgemental" people by "judging" what they think is wrong with the original comment. It's pretty hilarious actually. There's like these back and fourth cyber-cat-fights where people get all butt-hurt. Defending/ explaining yourself is only feeding their need for confrontation. Maybe yours, too. Idk, everyone's got their thing right?  I usually only check out the Etiquette board when I'm bored to death at work.... Which I am now because it's Columbus Day and this place is dead. 
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