I saw on this idea on tv and I'm so stealing it. This is my second wedding and most of our friends are already married and I don't want a whole gaggle of little girls fighting for my "toss" bouquet. Instead, I am choosing a slow song and all the married couples are come out and dance with me and my new husband. Then every little bit have the DJ ask couples married less than 5 years to sit, 10 years to sit, and so on until at the end of the song, the last couple still dancing with my and my husband, that "bride" will get my flowers!