Two knotties are getting married on the same day.
Who gets to say "ITS MY DAY!!!"
Is there a pecking order? Does the first one who books get to declare it HER DAY, and the rest have to settle for it just being a nice day? Or is there some battle to the death that results in the winner being able to call it "MY SPECIAL DAY" - special being added, of course, because of the battle she had to go through to get it?
As a long-time lurker and relatively new poster, I just want to know in case I encounter someone else who is getting married on June 6. I do not want to breach snark etiquette.