Recently, I received an RSVP where someone on my fiancee's side took it upon themselves to tell us that they were bringing more people than the actual intended invitees. I was and am deeply offended and feel disrespected because I feel that they didn't even ask if it was okay; they just wrote this person in on the RSVP and a matter-of-facto way. He is scared to address it and I refuse to let people walk all over me and tell me what I should do on my wedding day. To make matters worst, our venue is contracted for a max amount of people and by doing this, we now have exceeded a max- both in people and in what we will are budgeted. Money in not that much of a big deal as their behavior to do this. Furthermore, he had to think hard who the additional person was and get this....it is his first cousin, he has seen her (4) times in (20) years and there is (20) years between them! Our reception is either 12 and under OR 35 and older and at 20, she would be bored out of her mind!!!! I wrote this letter to calm the weather and just to let people know, I'm not the one.....
RE: Wedding RSVP
Dear : It has been brought to our attention that there is some confusion surrounding the invitation for our wedding. We have received several inquiries on how the invites were addressed. Unfortunately, to secure our venue and date of choice, we had to contract the reception facility for a maximum of (100) attendees. Due to this fact, we were not able to extend an invitation to all of our family and friends.
This has been a very difficult decision for us. Each invite was addressed for a maximum of (2) adult guests and forwarded to the individual(s) that the invite was intended. If your invitation was addressed to Mr. & Mrs., we had only intended for these (2) adults to attend as the invitees and in your honor, we reserved (2) place settings for you. If your invitation was addressed for you and a guest, we had intentions for you to attend with (1) guest and once again, we reserved (2) place settings for you as well.
At this time, we have extended invitations for all (100) seats that have been allotted to us by our venue and we are unable to extend any additional invites. If we receive any declines or invitees attending without a guest, we will notify you at your request that additional seating has become available. We apologize for any misconceptions and/or miscommunication. We thank you in advance for your understanding and look forward to seeing you on Our Special Day! Sincerely,