Hello,
I found this site visiting my friends wedding page and thought I'd look here for some advice. I am not yet engaged but I have a feeling its coming within the next few months....(my boyfriend can't keep secrets..)
I am one of those girls who doesn't have close girl friends. The majority of my friends have been male. The girl friends I do have are currently planning their weddings and I'm not in their bridal party (Although I'm involved in one of their weddings and the other called me to help her pick her bridal party..oh girls....). My problem is that I don't keep in touch. Men are easier to be friends with long term because you don't have to call every week to rekindle the friendship.
I have only a few girl cousins who I don't really speak with, I'm an only child, my boyfriend has no sisters-only one female cousin....He teases me that I won't have any bridesmais and I'm worried he's right! Do I join groups and clubs and try to build best friendships? Should I ask my girlfriends to be in my wedding even though I'm not in theirs? Do I go it alone?
I don't mind having one person up there with me, but I know my boyfriend wants to put every guy he knows up there (probably six groomsmen)
Help please!