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I feel a bit trifling...

So as you all may remember I did not extend plus ones to my non ring friends unless we were friends with both or the person wouldn't know anyone otherwise.

I have a friend , John.  John and I became really good friends through mutual friends. We remain good friends and we can and often do call each other for favors.

I get hotel discounts and when he travels with his gf he asks me to use it. Fine. 

I remembered he got cruise discounts but I didnt know it was through his GF. Nevertheless he hooked us for the Honeymoon with the discount.  He also does photography as a side buiness and agreed to do our Welcome Picnic, Rehearsal, and Rehersal Dinner photography for free ( well he is getting a meal for he and his partner).

He has never once brought up bringing her because he's not like that. But.... I feel bad for not inviting her. 

Should I extend the plus one? I really don't have any extra room on the list.... especially for both the RD and Reception. I'm thinking I'll get him a thank you card and bottle of rum.
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Re: I feel a bit trifling...

  • edited October 2012
    you had me at honeymoon discount.

    add photography for 3 events and <<Should I extend the plus one?>>   yes girl.  he's more than covered her plate.

    eta:  the 6 people beyond where you wanna be - in your head are they included in the folks that rsvp yes but at the last minute don't go?
  • I think you should, especially if the discounts were through her. It would be like a thank you.
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  • ok, I knew yall would tell me if I was being trifling... the money is clouding my brought upsy
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  • YES. invite her.
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  • Yep! I agree w/ PP. She should definitely be invited :)
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    [QUOTE]you had me at honeymoon discount. add photography for 3 events and << Should I extend the plus one ? />>   yes girl.  he's more than covered her plate. eta:  the 6 people beyond where you wanna be - in your head are they included in the folks that rsvp yes but at the last minute don't go?
    Posted by sultryzulu[/QUOTE]

    Agreed!
  • All of the above. I think you should invite her too
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  • Yep, plus one for John. 
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  • All gon head and add my 2 cents in and say..yes..let her come .
  • I agree, She should be able to come also.

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  • I agree with everyone else.. Yes you should def invite her..
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  • lol... his response 

    "ummm.... I'm gonna think about it 'cuz I was looking forward to a kid free/ chick free weekend"
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    [QUOTE]lol... his response  "ummm.... I'm gonna think about it 'cuz I was looking forward to a kid free/ chick free weekend"
    Posted by M1ssJ[/QUOTE]



    Wow! Lol, well looks like you may not have to worry about his plus one
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  • I was going to say yes invite her....since that couple combined has saves u mucho dinero..... BUT.... if he doesn't want her there...then I wouldn't rock the boat...clearly they have some sort of arrangement already set up... Soooo.... feel good u offered... BUT.. feel even better because it isn't increasing ur list....
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  • #teamplus1forJohn :-) LOL
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    [QUOTE]Wait, you didn't invite any SOs unless they were married or engaged? Wow, you're a peach. Good luck with that.
    Posted by StageManager14[/QUOTE]

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  • Lol what they said lol
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