NWR: Sex as usual

mancila60 · March 2012

I'm in a non-wedding mood today. So I figured we needed another NWR topic.

I know most of us have felt uncomfortable during sex at least once. But what is it that makes you feel the most un comfortable?

What makes you feel the most comfortable?

mildlymailyn · March 2012

I am least comfortable right after my monthly visit. I feel so self consious and just dry no matter what.

I am most comfortable first thing in the morning because it seems a little less rushed

Or after a really good workout and my body is loose and I can do whatever we want.

MrsLiggett7 · March 2012

I'm most uncomfortable on top! I'm insecure about my loose stomach skin from having a child. He insists there's nothing wrong with it, but I could care less if he likes it or not, I don't!

I'm most comfortable when it's spontaneous. I don't like "planned sex". Lol I enjoy it all the same but spantaneous sex is so much more...FUN!

S0095042 · March 2012

interesting topic...
to be honest, and i'm really trying to think hard here, but I don't think there is really much that makes me uncomfortable here - we have been together so long (7+ years) that I think our sexuality really grew up together since we met so young (if that makes any sence).

The only thing I can really think of is that I (as PP said) don't like "planned" sex. For me it turns from a fun activity to another things "to do" on my list. lol.

mandi921vh · March 2012

I don't think I have ever had uncomfortable sex with FI... of course some times are better than others but he has always made sure I was comfortable and makes me feel sexy.

mancila60 · March 2012

Most uncomfortable with the lights on. I don't mind light in the room (a lamp or tv) being on just I don't like the main light on. It's something about seeing EVERY detail in the light that is just weird and it bothers me. It's not that I don't like my body or that I don't feel sexy. I love being able to see FI in the light just not that much light lol.

Most comfortable is when FI and I try new positions I feel like that takes expectations off of us and we both know it may or may not work. Plus it can make us laugh sometimes which will loosen us up and relax a little more.

mandi921vh · March 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_may-2012-weddings_nwr-sex-as-usual?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:f0ca0bc1-9255-4120-8042-b40e7f3e99c5Discussion:7fbcb7d7-acd5-4402-9d18-51a29cc93079Post:a6951727-3eef-462b-88fe-ca24508333b0">Re: NWR: Sex as usual</a>:
[QUOTE]Most uncomfortable with the lights on. I don't mind light in the room (a lamp or tv) being on just I don't like the main light on. It's something about seeing EVERY detail in the light that is just weird and it bothers me. It's not that I don't like my body or that I don't feel sexy. I love being able to see FI in the light just not that much light lol. <strong>Most comfortable is when FI and I try new positions I feel like that takes expectations off of us and we both know it may or may not work. Plus it can make us laugh sometimes which will loosen us up and relax a little more.</strong>
Posted by mancila60[/QUOTE]

<div>I am so glad you mentioned this! I have a sex positions app on my phone and we are always trying new positions. I love that we are able to laugh at ourselves when some just don't work :)</div>

Shari 86 · March 2012

I am uncomfortable if T puts his hands on my belly or sides since DD. Before DD I don't think I was ever uncomfortable.

Unlike everyone else I am most comfortable when it is planned sex. Date night is my favorite. DD and Furbaby go to their grandparents for a couple of hourse and I get to cook a nice meal and put on my fancy panties I never wear anymore and we just enjoy eachothers company.

mancila60 · March 2012

[QUOTE]In Response to Re: NWR: Sex as usual : I am so glad you mentioned this! I have a sex positions app on my phone and we are always trying new positions. I love that we are able to laugh at ourselves when some just don't work :)
Posted by mandi921vh[/QUOTE]

Please share the app with me! I am ALWAYS looking for new things/positions to spice things up. I would love to use this.

dland0201 · March 2012

I am uncomfortable when FI has his hands on my muffin top and stomach. I am not happy with that area and insecure about it.

I am most comfortable when it is spontaneous and we just get caught up in the moment and don't think about anything else.

bpphoto785 · March 2012

I am also uncomfortable when the light is on. I'm fine if there's a little light, or it's sunny. There's just something about the overhead bedroom light that's really unflattering.

I actually LOVE FI's hands on me! I think it's because he has such big hands that it actually helps me feel skinny. I also love it when FI initiates and he keeps pursuing when I play coy. It reassures me that after 8 years he still wants me. Not that I don't know this, but it's nice to be reminded.

carlowgirl10 · March 2012

I also feel VERY insecure when im on top. Even though im very little, im very self conscious when im on top.

Im most comfortable when we do missionary..with the lights off (with the tv/computer) on..is my favorite time!

mandi921vh · March 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_may-2012-weddings_nwr-sex-as-usual?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:f0ca0bc1-9255-4120-8042-b40e7f3e99c5Discussion:7fbcb7d7-acd5-4402-9d18-51a29cc93079Post:ab758091-4d89-429b-8061-b7982e73d914">Re: NWR: Sex as usual</a>:
[QUOTE]Please share the app with me! I am ALWAYS looking for new things/positions to spice things up. I would love to use this.
Posted by mancila60[/QUOTE]

<div>It's called iKamasutra :)</div>

Tobeasimons · March 2012

I refuse to have the lights on. Not for insecurity purposes, I just think its more fun when you dont see the next move coming.

I have the best time when he starts with a full massage. I already know whats coming, but I get a massage out of the deal, and he gives better massages then the ladies at the spa.

I wouldnt mind changing things up. I cant be the only one who gets bored with the routine after 6 years from time to time. That app might not hurt

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