My second wedding is going to be completely different from my first, in which my ex-husband had far more say than I did. I'm excited to marry the man of my dreams in our church and celebrate with all of our family and friends, two things I missed out on with my first wedding. There were a couple details that I chose and loved in my first that I would like to use again. First, the flowers, which are my all-time favorite (even more so now, because my FI often gets them for me--including when he proposed). The second is the design of the cake topper. I loved the first and I would like to use the same artist for the second. My FI likes the one I picked out and agrees it suits us, but he doesn't know I used the artist for my first wedding.
To be honest, he doesn't know much about the first wedding at all, because we simply don't discuss our past relationships that often. We communicate well and we agree that the past is in the past and all that really matters is that we are planning our future together. Almost everything about this wedding is different from my first except for these couple details and on the one hand it doesn't seem like such a big deal, but my Catholic guilt is getting to me and I'm starting to worry that he might not appreciate being part of a "repeat decor detail." Thoughts?