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Still no RSVPs

insanityofamominsanityofamom member
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in October 2012 Weddings
I posted when I got my first RSVP, and I got really psyched that others would be coming in the mail soon. 

Nope. 

Nothing. 

No one has mentioned anything to me either, except for my grandma, who said on facebook she is coming. Now her husband is in the hospital, so I am not sure if it will work otu anymore, I just want her husband to get better. :) 

Please tell me there will be something in the mail today - at least from the bridal party?? I know they are coming but I'd still like to get the darn cards back! 
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Re: Still no RSVPs

  • achiduckachiduck member
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    I mailed my invites in July and I still don't have 3 out of 4 of my BMs back yet. They'll come, don't worry.
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  • BrittneyRNBrittneyRN
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    I mailed mine August 13, and I still have over 100 I need to hear from. I'm lucky if I get 1 a day now.
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  • CarolineandDeanCarolineandDean member
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    Not a single person from my bridal party has replied lol.  I guess because they (and I) know they're coming, its not as pertinent for them.
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  • NRod70NRod70
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    LOL.  I only received 1 this week and I am going nuts!!!!!!
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  • snuff9861snuff9861 member
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    I missing the majority of my bridal party still. I had one RSVP handed to me about a week ago, but havent gotten anything in the mail in over 3 weeks. LIke fack people.
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  • catwinecatwine member
    500 Comments Third Anniversary
    that sucks and i feel your frustration!!   i have only heard back from 2 of our 6 WP members...its a little annoying becuase we asked guets to select their meal on their card.
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  • aweathers13aweathers13 member
    Second Anniversary 10 Comments
    Only a few of my BP have sent them back.  I got back a ton at first (sent them out Aug 10) and now...nothing.  LOL.  We haven't received any this week!  Come on people!!!  LOL.  
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  • rlr02rlr02 member
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    I'm not having a bridal party....but haven't received RSVP's from my sister, my FIL, or FSIL's.

    That I find somewhat annoying. Come on people!

    (Although, the very first one we got back checked accept then hand wrote "with joy" underneath. I have it hanging on the fridge. It was from the couple that introduced FI and I.)

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  • amyelise25amyelise25 member
    100 Comments First Anniversary
    It was so cute how my mother was sad about NOT being our first RSVP back.  She tried hard to be.  She was in the day 2 wave (we got 5 then).  I am doubtful that we will see one from the FMIL. 

    We are at a trickle now.  I was overjoyed to see two in the mail last weekend.  We have 3 weeks to go and we need 2/3rds back.
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  • ktelizabeth86ktelizabeth86
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    I'm glad I'm not the only one who feels this way!
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  • tracey525tracey525
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    I'm in the same boat. It bugs the heck out of me that some people think that they don't need to RSVP ("you know we're coming!"), but actually, I do need them to. We need their entree choices!

    ... and on that note, our RSVP card clearly says initial each guests entree choice. I can't tell you how many couples put a check next to each. Do I bother finding out which meal they prefer, or just let them switch when the servershand them out at the dinner? I am worried people will forget what they asked for and it will cause a mini-scene at the dinner with a bunch of people trying to switch meals....
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  • mbuckley85mbuckley85 member
    500 Comments Second Anniversary
    We are waiting on 85/259.  Not too terrible, but they have slowed to 2-3 a day.  RSVP deadline is 9/14!

    I have a feeling that some of these late ones are going to be no's vs. the bunch of yes ones we got in the beginning.  For example, today we received 3 rsvp cards, 1 yes and 2 no's, whereas before we were going days with all yeses and then getting about 1 no per week!
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  • [Deleted User][Deleted User]
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    Yep my MOH said, ummm, aren't I in the wedding?" I said yes but your husband and kids aren't!
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  • ivedonethisb4ivedonethisb4 member
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    In Response to Re:Still no RSVPs:[QUOTE]Yep my MOH said, ummm, aren't I in the wedding?quot; I said yes but your husband and kids aren't! Posted by stephdi7971[/QUOTE]THIS EXACTLY! I didn't do traditional RSVPs I asked them to respond by phone or email. I wish I'd spent the money I didn't have to buy the darn RSVP's because out of like 350 people only 25 or so have let us know one way or the other! So annoying....I'm almost ready to say if you don't let us know then I'm assuming you won't be attending and I won't have food for you!!!
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  • insanityofamominsanityofamom member
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    Got our first RSVP today! 4 yes's! WOOOO! 
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