I know the wedding rule for invitations is to mail them out approx 2 months before your wedding so that would mean we would mail ours out in July. However my fiances mom is having a huge graduation party fot his sis next week and my FI thinks we should give the invites to the people who are attending the graduation party, since most of the people we are inviting will be there. His mom thinks that its a bad idea because people will loss them and it's just too soon. I can understand where his mom is coming from and where my fiance is coming from too.
My fiance thinks that if people really want to come to the wedding then they won't loss the invite and make an attempt to come. What do you girls think? Is it too soon or should we forget the wedding rule and just hand them to people early. Please let me know your thoughts cause I'm torn between this. Thanks!