Hi Ladies!
This is my first post! I pretty much have wanted to join the knot, but felt that it would be extra special if I waited til I had the ring...then I found this section and somehow validated my insanity of wanting to get a jump start. This could be because I am the LAST one out of my friend group still not married, and now they are all on baby duty!
My boyfriend, James, and I have been together for 2 and a half years. We picked out a ring and even have talked about a 'date' for our wedding....but now I wait! I know he has been saving up for a while now, and I know when he has enough he will go make the purchase... I feel so bad, i have told him more than once I dont care about the ring.. I just wish that we could announce to the world we are getting married, but he feels that would be embarassing without a ring. He was layed off 2 years ago from a union job (where he was making good money) and has been working as a lumberjack/farmer trying to make ends meet. I know how hard it is to save...and I feel guilty about that. I really just want to be with him for the rest of my life and I dont care about the ring.
Ugh anyway... Im hoping that it comes soon, so we can move on with our life together. We live 2 hours apart and dont want to live together until were engaged...so things just seem to be on hold. We are sooo sick of distance.
Im not sure if anyone else knows what Im going through or not. He keeps telling me that I need to stop worrying if it will happen because it WILL and hes not telling me anything because he wants it to be a surprise! So... we will see I guess!
Thanks.....