My two cousins who might as well just be my siblings are going to be two of my bridesmaids. My wedding isnt until 2014 (graduating college may 2014) but one will only be 18 by that March and the other wont turn 21 until the day before my wedding. What are some fun bachelorette part ideas that I can still do that doesnt involve drinking or strip clubs? Someone told me that another small get together involving those things with the other bridesmaids would be an option but I think that would hurt the other two girls feelings. Has anyone else had any experience with family members that were minors?