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Kerriberry99 · April 2012

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pockysquirrel · April 2012

Advice? Give him his ring back and get out. Clearly this guy has no intention of making a real commitment.

jesslynn1012 · April 2012

I wouldn't be able to end a long relationship as easily as the pp suggests you do, but that is probably what most people would say. I'd suggest couple's counseling. You might need a mediator to be unbiased and supportive professional to get down to what is really going on here... good luck.

Lisa50 · April 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_just-engaged-proposals_my-fiance-will-not-set-a-date-getting-frustrated?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:683Discussion:bddc3dc0-7e2b-43de-a4db-8eb765b00577Post:b9e1760b-a9f7-4c3e-9122-658ce58e879e">Re: My fiance will not set a date *getting frustrated*</a>:
[QUOTE]Advice? <strong><font color="#0000ff">Give him his ring back and get out.</font></strong> Clearly this guy has no intention of making a real commitment.
Posted by pockysquirrel[/QUOTE]

Agreed. 100%. And ... I hope you're not contributing to that mortgage payment. If so, stop. Now.

Annas2013 · April 2012

Please don't stay with him. I know it'll hurt and I know it'll be hard. But honestly? If he proposed a year and a half ago and still refuses to discuss the wedding that's a huge problem. Plus the house thing is too. You bought it together, it should be in both of your names. Not making it to the bank is a crappy excuse. If you don't want to end it, try counseling. If he doesn't want to, or it doesn't work, then consider leaving. There's someone out there who will propose to you and then be so excited about the wedding they'll wanna help you with it. And who will put your name on y'all's house.

Kerriberry99 · April 2012

Thank you all for your advice!!!!

iloveu4ever · April 2012

I agree couple counseling

goodine11 · April 2012

This one is hard

Britt1893 · April 2012

Don't throw in the towel so soon. I've been with my fiance' for 3 and a half years. June 3rd, we will be engaged for a year. Sometimes people have underlying reasons. As in maybe he wants to earn a promotion, or maybe wants more money so you have a larger budget. My fiance' and I knew we were having a long engagement. We are both in school, we want careers with our degrees so we have a large budget. My FMIL is my fiance's beneficiary also. You have to think...things happen. Unfortunately some engagements may not end in marriage. Perhaps he is making sure. You never know. I am waiting until I am married to have him as my beneficary. That is our agreement.

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