So throughout my wedding planning process I have probably been through about 10 bridemaids..its like who's still there when the music stops literally. I do not want 10 bridesmaids by any means, but my bm's have been the least supportive people ever! My first set of bridesmaids I thought were perfect until: my best friend decides to stop talking to me because I said it was stupid for her to cheat on her bf who is fighting in the war to go cross country and visit her ex who she almost had to call the cops on for showing up to her house unannounced and harrassing her and her mom..and she still won't talk to me(its been about 2 months). I told her she needed to grow up and she can't give me the silent treatment every time I say something she doesn't like. Another bm that I had, I thought we were friends until we graduated and she was telling everyone we use to work with the only reason she hung out with me is because I helped her with group projects and homework and I quote "I usually don't hang out with black girls"..like wth does that mean? I saw her once after graduation and she was smiling in my face and buddy buddy only because she found out my dad passed away. To make a long story short..I feel like I don't need to pick my bm's until two weeks before my wedding because i'll probably have someone else who is smiling in my face and then fake and full of attitude behind my back. Is it wrong for me to just get rid of all of them and start over? Im trying to be more positive about things and I feel like they are making me so stressed and who needs those people as friends anyway?
