So, I met with the first florist on my list last week (Petals and Lucy). Trish was so awesome and she seemed to be totally down with my motif. We talked about doing spray roses, ranunculous, hydrangeas (sp?) and other pretty flowers, some greenery too. She sent me the proposal later last week and, wow. I had no idea flowers were so expensive.
Now, I'll admit- I had been planning on a lot of flowers. I'll break it down for you to give you an idea:
Bridal bouquet
5 Bridesmaids bouquets
11 Men's boutoneers (groom, groomsmen, and fathers/grandfathers)
5 corsages (mothers/grandmothers)
8 bouquets for isle (see below)
20 table centerpieces
3 Vases at headtable/dessert table
So yeah- kind of a lot. Does anyone have any suggestions on how to cut down on having so many flowers total? I'm thinking of doing silk flowers for the Isle (I am having hanging mason jars on shepherd's hooks with flowers in them). Here is an example I found on etsy (the jar, not the shoe horn

Trish also suggested not using flower vases for every centerpiece, maybe have some candles. Below is a pic of my concept for the centerpieces. Ignore the blue fabric underneath, I just put that there for color. I am actually making circular blue lace "doilie" type things for the centerpiece to sit on. Also, the flowers in the pic are obviously silk- I just put them there because I'm doing pale pink flowers.

This Vase is green, but I am also doing clear and torquoise blue vases. Kind of going for a vintage/antique feel. Next to the vase are mason jars with candles and rocks in them.
I do have meetings with other florists set up, but everyone has told me that Trish's prices are reasonable. This leads me to believe that I'm just wanting for too much. None-the-less, I absolutely can not spend the amount on flowers that she has quoted me.
Any suggestions are appreciated. Thanks!!