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Bridal Shower no rsvps

MDORSEY22MDORSEY22
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My bridal shower is this saturday and no one has rsvped. I'm really stressed out. :(
What if no one comes, how can people be so rude as to not say yes I am coming.
Lilypie Trying to Conceive 21 to 37 day cycle tickers
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Re: Bridal Shower no rsvps

  • twilight.rosetwilight.rose member
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    edited December 2011
    Are you hosting your own shower? That's a rather large breech of etiquette.

    Assuming you aren't hosting it yourself, however, the RSVPs are none of your concern. It's the job of the hostess(es) to call the invitees after the RSVP date about whether or not they will be attending.

    Don't worry about it, and let the hostess take care of the party. Sometimes people are just terrible at RSVPing. It doesn't necessarily mean nobody is planning to attend.
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  • MDORSEY22MDORSEY22
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    edited December 2011
    I'm not planning my own shower. My mom emailed me to tell me that no one had RSVPed to see if maybe people had called me and to ask for peoples numbers.
    Lilypie Trying to Conceive 21 to 37 day cycle tickers
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  • S&N weddingS&N wedding
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    edited December 2011
    Quick question:  did the invitiation have all the rsvp information?  I remember once being invitied to a shower but whoever did the invites forgot to put the rsvp info.

    You and your mom really need to make phone calls/write out e-mails to people.  I can't believe how rude guests can be.

    I am having a similiar issue with out of state guests for my shower.  Nobody is telling me whether or not they are going to make the trip and I really need a headcount soon.
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  • quotequeenquotequeen member
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    edited December 2011
    Be prepared - people will do this for your wedding too.
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  • MDORSEY22MDORSEY22
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_pre-wedding-parties_bridal-shower-rsvps?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:32Discussion:84c65401-2f44-4044-acd4-1bf52d852c3ePost:b9272fc1-a516-4a87-835e-a1bb4bb8a3ff">Re: Bridal Shower no rsvps</a>:
    [QUOTE]Be prepared - people will do this for your wedding too.
    Posted by quotequeen[/QUOTE]
    Good point, any advice on preparing for those unexpected guests? I think I am going to have about 70-80 people invited but I know not everyone will attend, but also know that people who don't rsvp will show up, i just dont know what to do!
    Lilypie Trying to Conceive 21 to 37 day cycle tickers
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  • KD+BCKD+BC
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    edited December 2011
    I think a lot of people forget that RSVP means to respond either way. The invites sent out for my shower say RSVP regrets only and there have only been a couple RSVPs because everyone else is coming. I would ask your mom to start calling people to see if they are attending.
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