Miscarried
She would have been 13 weeks last Thursday. I guess they couldn't find the heartbeat at 12 weeks, but when they did the ultra sound at 13, they confirmed the baby had died "quite a while ago". I'm not sure what exactly that means, but she hadn't yet had any bleeding or anything. She went back to the doctor on Friday, but I haven't heard from her since...kind of trying to give her some space. I'm guessing they did a D&C.
To top things off, my last bridesmaid FINALLY ordered her dress like, less than two weeks ago. As of Friday, they wouldn't allow me to change her dress size!! They ordered her a 16 (which I still think would have been large on her even at 8 months pregnant), but now she will be more like a size 10 in the dress. Seriously, they are not making that dress right now, or it wouldn't take three months to arrive at the store! I'm just aggravated with that...while it's not a huge deal and can be altered, it was just one thing I didn't want her to have to think about. I did let her know though, so she doesn't think of it in a few weeks and panic, and she has a good attitude about it. She just said "oh well, we can just make another dress or some decorations or something with the material!"
While she's not close with my cousin, they are both in my bridal party and were due within 2 weeks of each other. I'm just hoping seeing her super pregnant at the wedding won't phase her...I don't think it will (definitely not outwardly), but I'm still a little concerned.