So in my attempt to be laid back and make our wedding stress free, I have made people feel left out. I have not stressed about what color the bridemaids shoes should be because it really does not matter. This I found out can be a bad thing because as my truely wonderful best friend has reminded me, people don't want to feel out of place; especially at a wedding where pictures are taken.
I asked my sister in law to do the flowers because I did not want my mom to stress out doing flowers and now she is upset because I did not ask her to do flowers. (What she doesn't know is that we are going to ask her in a special way to make our giant cupcake, she use to make cakes for a living.)
My sister/bridesmaid who has a child (the flowergirl) and lives out of state was upset because she didn't feel she had a significant role other than a bridemaid. I was trying to make things easy for her because she is coming from out of state and will have her child to worry about.
How do I repair these hurt feelings but still keep things less-stress?