My fiance and I just got engaged a few weeks ago and now that we're wrapping up telling everyone that matters, we're starting to get down to the nitty-gritty of actually choosing a date and doing the planning. Thing is, we had wanted to get married in May, but after picking through all the available weekends, the only one we can come up with is May 21st (due to various holidays/anniversaries).
And...my sister's fiance's sister is getting married May 14th.
I don't want my sister and her fiance to feel uncomfortable or even his sister to feel like "what the heck" if we get married the week after. I don't know if my family would be invited to her wedding or not--we sometimes do mixed family gatherings.
But I haven't asked opinions in the family, basically.
Anyway, I guess I'm just wondering if people think picking the week after someone else's wedding (that's close to my family) is going to be perceived as rude and cause problems for those who might be going to both? (Asking people involved is probably the best course of action, but...just throwing the question out there first.)
I have this niggling feeling that this probably would cause problems and I'll likely end up with a day in July (not ideal, but June is crazy for our family between anniversaries and holidays and birthdays). I just...figured I'd take opinions on this before I do something stupid!