Okay, I am more settled with this part of the gifts than I was before. Here's what I've got for my 3 girls:
-I bought them each a necklace from that groupon I posted about. You can see them here:
http://www.groupon.com/pages/gg-zirconmania-cz-jewelry-3I bought one of each of the pendants. Since I'm having a sort of steampunk theme in my wedding, I thought the keys were a nice little touch.
-They will each get a mug that I hope to put some tea bags in.
-I will print a photo on a piece of wood for each of them. I'm going to find either my favorite picture of them or a picture of my favorite memory of them.
-I found these really artful sticky note sets that are quite decorative. There are different sizes, too: standard square and those little rectangle ones for page keeping. Two of them are still in school and the other one is always busy so I know they will use them. I like to give useful gifts when I can.
Do all of these things sound ok? I'm sure these are perfectly acceptable things, but some part of me keeps worrying that they're not personal enough/thoughtful enough/whatever. I think this is my perfectionist side butting in!